Many today do not realize this, but it is very much possible for a person to accept Jesus, repent of their sins, goto church every week, and try to live a Godly life, and yet still go to hell. Why? Because their sins are not forgiven due to unforgiveness hidden in their heart against somebody!
There is a really good book entitled The Bait of Satan where he tells of somebody that has died, went to heaven, and looked over into hell only to see his mother-in-law. He ran to Jesus and exclaimed that she was a Godly woman who loved the Lord, and wanted to know why she was in hell. Jesus’ reply was that she held bitterness in her heart, and He couldn’t forgive her sins. This may sound far-fetched, but not for somebody who knows their Bible. Consider these stern passages:
Matthew 6:14-15, “For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
WOW! So does that mean that if we are unforgiving towards somebody else, that it leaves our own sins unforgiven? Yes, that’s exactly what Jesus said! Furthermore, the Bible tells us that if we love not our brother, that we abide in death.
1 John 3:14, “We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in death.“
Now if we are capable of not loving somebody, then we are obviously physically alive, therefore, this is clearly spiritual death that it’s speaking about here. If we hold unforgiveness in our heart against somebody, then we are abiding in spiritual death and our own sins stand before us.
What happens when a person dies without their sins being paid for, and are abiding in spiritual death?
If we are concerned about saving the lost, then we need to be equally motivated to warn God’s people of the importance of forgiving others who have offended them, lest they go to hell too!